We're Here, Get Used to It

Often, when confronted by a barrage of unpleasantness, we revert to an exceptionalism mindset -- the "it will happen to others but not to us" mentality.

We're reposting below a report by The Rebel Yellow, an Asian American news site, as a cautionary tale, a wake-up call and an example of how to assert one's right in the face of, in this case, a verbal assault.

Filipino American New Hampshire state rep told to “go home”

New Hampshire State Rep. Luz Bay says a Republican lawmaker told her to “go home” after she spoke in honor of Philippine Independence Day at the State House.

“Home country”

In a speech delivered on June 12, Bay said the incident followed remarks she gave “exactly a week ago,” on June 5, during which she reflected on her heritage and referred to the Philippines as her “home country.” Afterward, an unnamed Republican colleague questioned how someone who called another country “home” could serve in the New Hampshire legislature.

She returned to the floor to address the exchange and affirm her right to serve. “Let me say it clearly,” she said. “I am here because I belong here.” A video of her remarks, posted by the New Hampshire House Democratic Caucus on June 14, has since been widely shared on social media and has drawn support from advocacy groups.

Bay’s background

Born in the Philippines, Bay immigrated to the U.S. and earned a Ph.D. in educational measurement and statistics from Southern Illinois University Carbondale. She lives in Dover and was first elected to the New Hampshire House in 2022. Now serving her second term, she is also a three-time cancer survivor and marathon runner.

“My constituents in Strafford County District 21 elected me under the same laws, with the same legitimacy as anyone in this room,” she said. “My birthplace does not make me less American. My accent does not disqualify me from public service. And my identity as a Filipino American does not make me a guest. I am a citizen. I am a public servant. And I am home.”

A broader message

Bay placed her experience within a larger American narrative, drawing attention to the country’s immigrant roots: “Unless you are Indigenous to this land … you too are descended from immigrants. Some of our families came centuries ago. Others came fleeing war, poverty, persecution, or simply searching for the promise that America holds.”

She added, “To question my right to be here is to misunderstand what makes America what it is — a place where democracy is enriched by diversity, where freedom means the opportunity to serve, and where strength lies in our shared commitment to justice, not in the sameness of our origins.” Bay concluded, “This is my home. This is my country. And I’m not going anywhere.” - The Rebel Yellow, 6/23/2025

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The Ashes of June

If you were not in the Philippines on June 15, 1991, your memory of the gigantic eruption of Mt. Pinatubo in Central Luzon -- the second largest volcanic eruption of the 20th century -- is probably hazy. It was before the Internet became a thing; power was off and the airports were closed for almost a week. Thus news reports of the full extent of the catastrophe came in trickles. 

But for those who were there, memories of that day are forever etched in their consciousness. Like writer/historian Robby Tantingco of the Holy Angel University of Pampanga who wrote the award-winning book, Pinatubo: The Volcano in our Backyard. His riveting and heartbreaking story of what happened that fateful day when, for the first time ever, a powerful typhoon and a once-in-a-lifetime volcanic eruption together overpowered the sun is a must-read here. His words:  "It [the eruption] switched off the sun like a light bulb and plunged the province in total darkness. It was so dark you couldn't see your own hand stretched out in front of you, and the ash fall was so thick even sound waves couldn't pass through. Thus, everything was muffled, you had to strain your ear to hear conversation, like a movie with the volume turned low." 

The main explosion of Pinatubo lasted just over 24 hours but the devastation was absolute. 

The ashes of Pinatubo did not stay in the Philippines. It circled the world and enabled spectacular sunsets in the western hemisphere. But for the people of Pampanga and nearby provinces, the mudflow of lahar, which wiped out complete towns, was a four-year nightmare, according to Tantingco. 

Would that such wrath of nature never happen again anywhere.

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Tell us about your hometown. In 1,000 words or less,  share your story about the place your mind returns to when it needs to retreat from the noise and din of the present. We define "hometown" broadly. It can be right smack in the grit of the city, an idyllic rural area, a middle-class subdivision or even a university campus. It can evoke memories of peace or traumas of violence. What they have in common is the feeling of home, however one defines home. We'd appreciate accompanying pictures (ideally both old and current). You can email the Word doc at submissions@positivelyfilipino.com.


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