We Didn't Know How to Love Him

Benigno Simeon Cojuangco Aquino III, better known as PNoy or Noynoy, passed away on June 24, a few hours after we sent out our issue last week (Wednesday here in the US). While we missed out on the immediacy of the sad and unexpected news (we put out a new issue only once a week), we have the advantage of being able to wade through the countless tributes on print, social media, on videos and podcasts, in churches and Zoom gatherings, on giant electronic billboards and the personal recollections of those who knew him or didn't, and those who worked with him or were the beneficiaries of his policies.

The Philippines' 11th president after 1946, the 5th since his mother assumed the post after the people toppled the Marcos regime in 1986, had consistently high popularity ratings throughout his presidency, despite his being criticized as aloof, stoic and emotionless. Yet the stories now being told by his staff, particularly the writers who collaborated with him in crafting his public statements (one of whom was told by PNoy himself to please wait until he's dead to write about him), paints a different picture -- that of a meticulous boss who made sure he got the facts straight and the grammar correct in public, and a typical loner who craved his silences and his music, alone. So unlike regular politicians who want the limelight even if they're so unfit for it.

PNoy's legacy as leader of the country from 2010 to 2016 has been cemented with his death at 61 years old. The decency and integrity that he was known for, along with his administration's achievements  -- I personally consider the passage of the Reproductive Health law, which had his unwavering support despite intense opposition from the Catholic Church, as his most sterling one -- are rightfully heralded and documented for posterity. That his critics continue to try to demean and defile his legacy with such ignorance and vulgarity only reminds us of how bereft we are of losing him. Ace journalist and journalism professor Sheila Coronel says it best: “There's now sort of a wave of nostalgia for a president who was honest, sincere, didn't curse and didn't kill, and who took governance seriously”.

For those of you who didn't know him or were not aware of his policies, here's a curated collection of links to stories about Noynoy Aquino, the president and the man:

In The Know (Special Edition)

The Impossible Dreamer
https://www.spot.ph//newsfeatures/the-latest-news-features/86591/benigno-noynoy-aquino-iii-tribute-a3256-20210626-lfrm4?ref=home_aside_popular

The unfinished legacy of Noynoy Aquino
https://www.rappler.com/voices/thought-leaders/opinion-unfinished-legacy-noynoy-aquino 

A Former Close-In Aide Shares His Experiences With President Noynoy Aquino: 'I Lost a Friend'
https://www.esquiremag.ph/long-reads/features/noynoy-close-in-aide-experience-a2650-20210625-lfrm?utm_source=facebook-esquire&utm_medium=ownshare&utm_campaign=20210625-fbnp-long-reads%2Ffeatures%2Fnoynoy-close-in-aide-experience-fbfirst&fbclid=IwAR1-TAzUxhiek402MRQ1oHmXl8Qlt5dtED3brA0QF7RC-scHHZoQYS_HGoM

PNoy was My Boss: A delayed dispatch from an ex-Palace speechwriter
https://news.abs-cbn.com/ancx/culture/spotlight/06/25/21/pnoy-was-my-boss-a-delayed-dispatch-from-a-palace-speechwriter?fbclid=IwAR37EML9A7Fsvha435dgo1EJKHcakHW_ucOhHV2bQ7bKOFxdgxKlZRq7ClY

The Story of the Aquino and Cojuangco Clans And The Struggles of the Philippine Nation
https://ph.asiatatler.com/society/family-matters-the-aquino-and-cojuangco-aquino-clans?fbclid=IwAR1cDGKZMZeFeqdnfIEjae0T0edbveLXE_mpVLb_3rd9CkCkcLU-I7H-eig

Mula sa taumbayan, maraming salamat, PNoy!
https://www.rappler.com/voices/editorials/thank-you-noynoy-aquino-from-the-filipino-people?fbclid=IwAR3iLCGN0HnCU-0bkiO2vM7LL6FdFyErD9C_GuT2Jvy_212Q9rrObArILDY

A lament for a president
https://www.philstar.com/business/2021/06/28/2108474/lament-president?fbclid=IwAR3tGIRLo9liSJeqkQwv2EpcAC58LgehaqhUeU0Iy29tL7UXEKJQxQT1XiQ

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Video of the Week: Remembering Noynoy Aquino


Gemma Nemenzo

Editor, Positively Filipino

What a Difference 30 Years Make

When Mona Lisa Yuchengco started Filipinas magazine in 1992, it was quite a task to find prominent Fil-Ams to feature. There were just a few in entertainment, fewer still in media and politics. 

What a difference 30 years make! Today, Fil-Ams have a strong presence in many fields -- entertainment, music, literature, the academe, media, government service and local politics. One of them is Rob Bonta, elected for multiple terms as the first Fil-Am in the California state legislature and recently appointed by Gov. Gavin Newsom as the state Attorney General, taking the place of now Vice President Kamala Harris. The appointment has left Bonta's legislative seat vacant and one of those running to fill that seat is Malia Vella, a Filipino American who is currently the vice mayor of Alameda, CA. Read about her (and wish her luck) in Harvey I. Barkin's write-up.

Part of the world is opening up after the devastating pandemic so we're now posting travel stories to places you might consider visiting in the future. A regular PF contributing writer, former Ambassador Virgilio A. Reyes, Jr., writes about visiting Guam, a US territory with strong ties to our Motherland. 

Fil-Am author Mia P. Manansala's Arsenic and Adobo, one of Buzzfeed's highly anticipated mystery novels of 2021, is given a review by PF Correspondent Elizabeth Ann Quirino.

From our archives, here are some Read Agains that continue to be good reading: 

Veteran journalist Philip M. Lustre Jr.'s recalls a time when politicians were competent and colorful, and the best of them all was Manila's mayor: http://www.positivelyfilipino.com/magazine/arsenio-h-lacson-the-best-president-the-philippines-never-had

Famous artist/chef Claude Tayag remembers Anthony Bourdain's Philippine visit: http://www.positivelyfilipino.com/magazine/bourdains-last-famous-badass-words

And we have a new contributor to our Happy Home Cook section: Maja Hu, based in Austin, TX, shares with us her recipe for waffles using the currently trendy Philippine root crop, ube. 

For Video of the Week, Asia Society Philippines put together a music video with well-known Filipino performers in a campaign against the rising Anti-Asian Hate Crimes in the U.S.

In The Know

Filipino Americans reported highest Covid mental health issues of any Asian group
https://news.yahoo.com/filipino-americans-reported-highest-covid-163936139.html?soc_src=social-sh&soc_trk=ma

Viral images show people of color as anti-Asian perpetrators. That misses the big picture.
https://news.yahoo.com/viral-images-show-people-color-184732271.html?soc_src=social-sh&soc_trk=ma

Little Manila Perseveres: How Filipinx Leaders in Stockton Are Organizing for the Next Generation
https://www.kqed.org/news/11878030/little-manila-perseveres-how-filipinx-leaders-in-stockton-are-organizing-for-the-next-generation?fbclid=IwAR19sHskRRMr-YmgMZum9saxnsBiKdvidcvUebOXjXtLtjr3Cd1NYlFNhSI

Kakanin: As Pinoy as it gets
https://philstarlife.com/living/999106-kakanin-pinoy-food?page=6

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Gemma Nemenzo

Editor, Positively Filipino

Light, at Last

Positively Filipino honored famous fathers with an inspiring webinar yesterday. It featured Sylvia Lazo, daughter of National Artist Fernando Amorsolo; Lindsay Keys, daughter of Maj. Gen. Antonio Taguba; Rey Banatao, son of tech entrepreneur Dado Banatao; and Vicki Nievera, daughter of popular balladeer Bert Nievera. Hosted by Odette Alcazaren-Keeley, the event was a fitting celebration of Father's Day. Watch the recording here “Loving Kids Talk About Their Famous Dads”

As California, Vermont and other US states emerge from the darkness of a pandemic year, the process of reopening has triggered a slew of advice and caution, some serious how-tos on re-entering the social circuit, others offering funny cautionary tales about the post-Covid world. For seniors, undoubtedly the biggest demographic impacted by the pandemic, AARP, its trusted guardian angel, came out with a list of protocols for houseguests newly liberated to visit family. Occasional PF contributing writer Elena Buensalido Mangahas however thinks the list not too apt for Filipinos so she came up with her own, "The Fil-American Rule: Apologize Then Proceed." Do you have your own rules? 

Our series of "Fil-Ams Among the Remarkable and Famous" is now on part 21, putting talent and achievements on display. 

We're at the midpoint between two national celebrations -- Philippine Independence Day (June 12) and Rizal Day (June 19) so it's but fitting to post (and repost) stories that celebrate our Motherland's history and National Hero. First off, Harvey I. Barkin reports on a recent talk by noted historian Ambeth Ocampo on Rizal's visit to the US, "Rizal in the US: He Was Not Impressed." We also have the link to the actual lecture. 

Here are other interesting Rizal stories:

"Rizal's Great Loves" by Penelope V. Flores 

"Jose Rizal, Martial Arts Warrior" by Rene J. Navarro 

Timed appropriately for these disturbing times, our Video of the Week presents a powerful, incisive short film, "Heneral Rizal." a production of Act One in the Philippines. 

And continuing our Rizal tribute, here's a repost of the recipe for Tinolang Manok or Chicken Tinola, reportedly his fave dish.

In The Know

Trese: What Netflix's new occult anime reveals about the Philippines
https://www.bbc.com/news/world-asia-57424360?fbclid=IwAR2ifQf5T8CBDgrQwVHKb-6xnVpCujzE-5XchS-pNEBpXs6Ew6PUHP6PKTI

[Dash of SAS] Second chances in the only country in the world without divorce
https://www.rappler.com/voices/thought-leaders/dash-of-sas-second-chances-only-country-in-world-without-divorce?fbclid=IwAR2h6pPJqxtlWwkXeZUQ7ES5u91zm2Gi7kMLxhv8h7MYn8XR8DjXLBx2wBQ

Breaking down Filipino cuisine by region is harder than you'd think
https://www.sbs.com.au/food/article/2021/06/02/breaking-down-filipino-cuisine-region-harder-youd-think?fbclid=IwAR1WCSRmfIAsU99iR6vzUHuNBtc9j3XLMadbxsJM02hymoJS5YY6XlzEOk0

Filipino American nurses, reflecting on disproportionate Covid toll, look ahead
https://www.nbcnews.com/news/asian-america/filipino-american-nurses-reflecting-disproportionate-covid-toll-look-a-rcna1112

NBA’s Jordan Clarkson restores vandalized Filipino food truck, decries Asian hate
https://www.goodnewspilipinas.com/nbas-jordan-clarkson-restores-vandalized-filipino-food-truck-decries-asian-hate/?fbclid=IwAR1iGw5-gjH4zaL3_2pMJnxao80m91Qxi4g6M9DvSkbTL0vMJ7OnZv1-hzo

7 Ancestral Homes and Heritage Buildings in the Philippines Turned Into Beautiful Dining Spots 
https://ph.asiatatler.com/dining/ancestral-homes-and-heritage-buildings-turned-into-beautiful-dining-spots


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